Sep

Could This Marriage Be Saved?

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Can this relationship be rescued? Is it really possible to save or do wonders to your marriage? Is your beloved not interested in putting any more effort on your relationship? If your situation is such that your lover is a drug addict or an alcoholic, are you worried whether you can still repair your relationship?

Knowing and understanding the macroscopic foundational principles of dealing with relationship issues is absolutely required before you can handle the problems of your marriage in details. Without directly finding the solution to your question of whether your relationship can be saved, which you’ll see that it is not the core of your problem, a much more useful teaching will be given to you.

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You should realize that there are things for you to learn from the relationship if you choose to remain in the it. In general, you do not see what you yourself are doing wrong that can be harmful to the marriage, but you see clearly what your partner is doing wrong (that is from your perspective). You will keep on bringing your own damaging behaviors with you into your future relationships, until you learn and grow from your own problems contributing to your marriage troubles. Unless those issues related to you are healed, there is really no escaping from your current problems with the hope to find anotherrelationship that can suit you better. Exception to this is when there is physical abuse, in which case you should consider leaving a relationship before you are harmed physically.

Learning from your marriage problems and evolving in your personal development is the real issue here. The core of the issue you need to solve is not really about the issues thrown at you by your relationship, but what you take from them. If you think that you simply have to accept the situations as fate for you to handle and work on your personal development, and there is just no way out even though you try all your best to make things better, don’t feel so down. There is a way out for you, and you are really in control of it!

You have full control of your outcome when you take full responsibility for the lessons you learn from your relationship and for the care you give to your own feelings, personal development, growth, fulfillment, and happiness. When you are able to do all these, you are not subjected to whatever your partner does, because you now do not depend on your lover for your happiness in the relationship. You have to discover how to respond to your partner in ways that are loving to yourself and that support your own joy and highest good.

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By doing this, are you being too cold to your lover and marriage in the sense that it appears that you only care about yourself? Actually, you care about your lover, and you care in a loving way. It’s just that you now know how to care without being attached to your lover’s issues that he/she needs to work on himself or herself.

Your relationship can face two consequences from the problem you’re facing, one of them being your lover and you both realize that you each have inner work to do and eventually both of you make your relationship work. The other consequence is that your lover is closed to the idea that he or she needs to work on himself or herself just like you do, and there’s only so much you could do on your own because a relationship really is not a one-person thing, which might result in divorce. Do not be attached to the outcome that you desire your partner to behave in the way that you want, even though you should try all your best to offer your support to your partner in working on himself or herself and in rescuing your marriage.

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