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Ever Wonder How the "Other Woman" Feels? <p>Dear Cathy,</p>
<p>I was truly offended by your article and description of the <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/theothermanotherwoman/a/othemanotherwoman.htm">"Other Woman"</a> in a marital affair. The Other Woman, truth be told is a wonderful,loving lady. She is caught in a love triangle without knowing.</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/09/02/ever-wonder-how-the-other-woman-feels.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> Should a Child be Allowed to Choose Which Parent to Live With After Divorce? <div><p><strong>Question:</strong></p>
<p>I have two children, my son is twelve and my daughter is six. My husband and I are divorcing and my son wants to live with his father. He told me that the reason he wants to live with his Dad is that he doesn't want him to be lonely.</p>
<p>What is your opinion on allowing a child to live where they want after a divorce? Should I be concerned about him being separated from his sister? Am I wrong to think that my son not wanting his Dad to be lonely isn't a good reason for living with his Dad? Will separating him and his sister have a bad effect on them? Should we consult a therapist before making a final decision?</p></div>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/09/02/should-a-child-be-allowed-to-choose-which-parent-to-live-with-after-divorce.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> Can My Wife Take The Children If She Leaves? <div><strong>Question: </strong>Can My Wife Take The Children If She Leaves?</div>
<div><p>My wife says she is leaving and taking our children. Can she legally take my children with her when she leaves?</p></div>
<p><strong>Answer: </strong></p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/09/01/can-my-wife-take-the-children-if-she-leaves.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> Divorce Advice for Women <p>From: <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/divorceattorneys/a/ThydenGrossBio.htm">James J. Gross</a></p>
<p>Once you decide you are going to get a divorce, there are eleven things you can do to get ready:</p>
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<li><strong>Start a War Chest:</strong>
<p>You are going to need your own money for a divorce. You will have to be able to maintain yourself and your children for a while if you are dependent on your spouse and your spouse decides to cut off support.</p>
<p>You will also probably need funds to hire a <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/divorceadvicepolls/a/adviceforwomen.htm">lawyer</a>. If there is anyway to start a separate account to guard against future financial contingencies, now is the time to do it. If you have to borrow money from a relative or friend, be sure to sign a promissory note so the court will look at this as a loan that you have to repay and not as a gift.</p></li>
<li><strong>Keep a Divorce Calendar:</strong>
<p>If you are currently using a desk calendar or day planner, you will now need to include your divorce events. There will be meetings with your lawyer and court deadlines to keep track of. It may be helpful to keep...<a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/divorceadvicepolls/a/adviceforwomen.htm">post continued</a></p></li>
</ol> Divorce Advice for Men <p>From: <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/divorceattorneys/a/ThydenGrossBio.htm">James J. Gross</a></p>
<p>There are a lot of important actions that men can take to protect themselves in a divorce. Below are eleven things for you to consider regarding specific financial matters:</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/08/30/divorce-advice-for-men.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> Can Spending Too Much Time Together Lead to Divorce? <p>My ex had no outside interest. His life revolved around family and work. If he wasn't at work, every time I turned around I bumped into him. I encouraged him to take up<a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://golf.about.com/od/beginners/a/faq_beginners.htm"> golf</a>, go our for drinks with his buddies...anything that would give him to opportunity to get away from work and <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://stress.about.com/od/familystress/qt/family.htm">family stress</a>. We spent too much time together which in the end played a role in the demise of our marriage.</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/08/24/can-spending-too-much-time-together-lead-to-divorce.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> Top 10 Causes of Marital Problems <p>Below is a list of common sources of marital stress and conflict; consider how you are currently dealing with these issues, and how you could better deal with these issues:</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/08/23/top-10-causes-of-marital-problems.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> Zsa Zsa Gabor: Nine Times Married, Eight Times Divorced <p>To say that Zsa Zsa Gabor has experience with divorce is an understatement. She also had unique views (for her time) about how women should stand up for themselves in divorce and everyday life.</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/08/17/zsa-zsa-gabor-nine-times-married-eight-times-divorced.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> New York Goes No-Fault <p>Governor David Patterson signed a bill passing <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/maritalproblems/i/nofault_fault.htm">no-fault divorce law</a> for the state of New York. The new bill will allow couples to divorce by mutual consent or unilaterally.</p>
<p>Governor Paterson said in a statement. "These bills fix a broken process that produced extended and contentious litigation, poisoned feelings between the parties and harmed the interests of those persons -- too often women -- who did not have sufficient financial wherewithal to protect their legal rights. I commend the sponsors on providing a real and effective legislative solution to a problem that has for too long bedeviled ordinary New Yorkers."</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/08/16/new-york-goes-no-fault.htm">Read Full Post</a></p> How to File For Divorce Without an Attorney <p>To begin the <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/yourlegalrights/a/pro_se.htm">Pro Se</a> or "do it yourself," divorce process a document called <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/%20od/thedivorceprocess/ss/divorceprocess_2.htm">Original Petition for Divorce</a> is filed with your local <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/%20od/thefamilycourtsystem/f/courtpersonnel.htm">court clerk</a> and legally begins the <a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/%20od/thedivorceprocess/ss/divorceprocess.htm">process of divorce</a>. In some states, this is referred to as a "Letter of Complaint." Both documents are requests that the court grant a divorce and list any relief the party filing for divorce feels they are due. The original petition or letter of complaint will identify the parties to the divorce and any children they may have.</p>...<p><a href="http://clk.about.com/?zi=1/1hc&zu=http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2010/08/12/how-to-file-for-divorce-without-an-attorney.htm">Read Full Post</a></p>
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Divorce Court Is A Sad Place
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People usually have beautiful, happy weddings, and the bride and groom rarely worry about a on this wonderful day. Unfortunately, a huge percentage of the people who marry end up in court. The couples who end up in court come with different reasons for the dissolution of their marriages. Some were never compatible in the first place, and they end up in court soon after they marry. Other people stay married for many years before their marriage ends in court. Although the reasons for the trip to court may be different, the feelings of the people are usually similar. They are sad about the end of their marriage.
Most couples who have trouble in their marriage try to work to reconcile. If their differences are irreconcilable, some couples can work out the arrangements for their without the help of the court. They sit down and discuss the important issues to make sure that they do not waste good money on lawyers and the fees of a court. Other couples are filled with anger and hatred for their spouse, and they cannot agree on anything. Some of these people end up fighting over the family dog and the arrangements for the custody of their children.
Divorce Court Is The Last Resort
Couples who cannot sort out their differences may need their lawyers and court officials to make decisions for them. These people will spend a good amount of money for this help. The court will
help them decide who will have custody of their children. The court will also decide who retains the family home and the family pets. The court will also make rulings about the division of the family assets. The couple must follow the decisions of the court even if they do not agree with the decisions.
Couples who work out their differences on their own will avoid spending hours and dollars in court. They will have to file their with the court to make sure that the agreement is perfectly legal and binding. Once the decision is made by the court, the couple are free to go their separate ways. Most people who end up in court for their are very careful if they ever marry again. They want to make sure that they never end up in court again. Other people appear for a on numerous occasions.
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